What is 'this thing' with addictions? One of the answers from my main Guide that I like to share.

First I like to explane why I write this message in english.
English is a language most people either can read and understand, or find  the way easily how to translate it into their own language.

Here is what I like to share with you all. This message can possibly support you, like it supported me, finding out by yourself why you have habits that turn out to be 'addictions'.
At this moment I see, feel and meet many people who want to 'step out' of the energy of 'addictions', including myself, looking at my own patterns at this moment in my live. I choose to look intense in my mirror to find out what patterns, wich habits still are connected with the energy of an addiction.

Self reflection

My first question facing myself in the mirror was: What is actually the reason to start with an addiction?

Do I live with an addiction? Or perhaps even more than one? Do I?

When is a 'habit' an addiction?

This is what my 'Main Guide' shared with me when I asked hereinafter.

"Any kind of addiction, called an addiction, is when a habit is harming your true being, your soul energy. When you 'hide' your true being in a habit, and when the habit is used 'out of fear', keeping you away of acting truely from your inner knowledge and your true heart energy."


I asked: And what if a habit is helping me to break through fear, anxiety caused by absorbed patterns of my parents, family and people around me during me growing up, during my childhood time?

The answer was: "Do you think that you can cure pain, feeling insecure, harmed, neglected, misunderstood, unloved, etc., by repeating the same action, exchanging the same energy to yourself or towards others?

I can tell you that you, choosing to be born on earth, you know that you are a Soul with all the knowledge and strenght inside yourself to deal with the patterns that your family and the people around you show.
You know inside that these patterns they show just are mirrors to look at, to recognize the parts what you choose to heal inside, to do what you choose to go and do, coming to Mother Earth.

You came to heal the parts that where wounded in your Soul by actions in past lives, to become 'the whole you' again. Do you doubt that you have the skills for doing so inside yourself?
You do have all the tools and skills inside your self, within reach, to heal yourself. You don't need any tool from outside yourself, you can shine in the power of your own Soul, in Oneness. To gain insight, you will have the right mirrors around you. To see where and what caused you leaving yourself in that part of Being whole, is half the way of healing yourself."

My Guide went on: On the path doing so you can share this inner healing path and let each and everyone see the way that they can heal themself too. Everyone has the power and the right skills healing themselves, just by being their true self. You all can remember being one, coming home in the Oneness.


So there is in this message the invitation to look at yourself and the patterns and habits in your life.
As with many habits, living with addictions can have more than one reason. And you just can realise that your habits are addictions, when you pay attention on your habits and look on deep levels inside yourself if a habit is harming you.
 
Some questions to have a look at: Do you live your life? Or do you choose that someone else can tell you what to do and how to live your life? Just go inside yourself, where you can feel from inside out why you came on Mother Earth. What is there to heal inside yourself, what do you come to share. Where do you feel is now the place for you to be on Mother Earth? And are you with the person(s) you feel really connected with from your heart? Do you share with the world what is your gift to share, what your heart an soul is here for on Mother Earth? Are you YOU, every moment? Is your heart happy with being 'the you' you are right now? Do you treath yourself with respect and with love? Do you live in harmony with your true Self?
Living in harmony with one self is needed to be able to live in harmony with All and every one. Are you honest with yourself? And with the ones around you? Do you treat yourself and others as you wish others treat you?

You can find more questions to find out what is bothering and constraining you to really be yourself just to  look around you, see the children in your neighborhood. Look in the mirror that they show you. Recognize yourself in them.

TO SEE IS TO KNOW.  To gain insight is half the path of healing yourself.

I wish All and Everyone Love and Light on your path, energy guiding you regaining insight to heal yourself from inside out. To be ONE ♥

RainbowHeart Hug, Lucia